Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Remembering

Anniversaries seem to assume a celebration of sorts.  But people who have lost or have been hurt also know there are sad or somber anniversaries.  It has been a year (Feb 11) since we found J's lymphoma.  Talking with J tonight he said, "It doesn't seem like it could have been a year since that all happened, it doesn't seem like it has been that long."  I reminded him he was in a bit of a daze during a few months of treatment.  He chuckled a bit and said, "Yeah".  I asked him earlier what he thinks about regarding his experience over the last year.  He said he kind of prefers not to think about it at all.